Monday, August 11, 2014

"Identity Theft: Searching for Psychiatric Balance™"

Imagine driving along the coast in a convertible. The fresh air is crisp and blowing gently around your face. The sun is setting. It's the "golden time of day." Ahead you see a huge boulder that has tumbled off the rocky cliff. It's falling down..down..toward the road, fast. When you see it, you drive at top speed because you want to drive right under it so that it crushes you. Robin Williams probably felt the same way. Lost and alone in a world full of people.

Before his body was probably stiff, Robin Williams's death evoked pleas all over social media for humanity to take better care of ourselves and each other. But all the accountability in the world is no match for a cocktail of mental illness and drug abuse. It's impenetrable. Being there is awesomely commendable--people need that. But it's simply not enough to penetrate the root.

The Root: you're laughing with your family or friends, having an amazing day! All of a sudden, you call your mom a bitch and your grandmother and weak. You call the cops on them, but curse them because they have on dark blue uniforms instead of tan. Your words cut everybody deep because you blurt out secrets you've been told or expose insecurities of those you know are weak. An hour later, you're laughing again and have no clue why everyone else is crying or upset. You cozy up to a few of the people you've just masticated to the core. You don't remember a thing. When you're reminded by the very people you've hurt, you become depressed and lie in bed for days wondering who you are and why you do the things you do. One minute you're Shirley Temple-like, the next, you're Linda Blair during her exorcism. It's mental identity theft. A chemical imbalance in your brain. The beast that attacks your mind.

Let's do more to attack this beast at it's core. I challenge you. I DARE you. Let's change mental health legislation. One of the most difficult tasks I've ever had to face is trying to get mental health rehabilitation for someone who suffers mental illness. For four years, I relentlessly tried to get help. So far, the red tape is permanently sealing the box of hope.

All a mentally ill adult has to say is, "No, I don't have a problem," when asked if they want help, and that's that. Umm...they're mentally ill. What did you expect them to say? And for a mentally ill teen? Forget it! They call it puberty and drag out the process until they become adults. Despite a collection of medical, criminal and academic records as proof of mental, emotional, physical and social disarray, the movement for psychiatric balance is a long night of mental slavery.

The biggest fallacy is mental health clinics-- they're legalized trap houses. Someone who suffers a mental deficiency can go into a government-funded clinic, admit they need help, wait about eight to twelve hours, talk to a psychiatrist for five minutes, then receive prescriptions for a bag of pills, which might be the wrong dosage. Usually they are the wrong dosage.

While researching my upcoming book, "Identity Theft: Searching for Psychiatric Balance," a psychiatrist told me mentally ill people self-medicate with drugs or alcohol to subdue the mental chaos, and a social worker said their lives usually end tragically or too soon since they put themselves in dangerous situations trying to reach their mentally ill high (which is more potent that cocaine or crack) or calm it.

So please, let's be a shoulder, soother, confidant or BFF, but let's be MORE than that. It is imperative that we communicate with legislators. Find the right level of government to approach in your area. Write senators, aldermen, congressmen/congresswomen, mayors, even the President, to change minds (pun intended).

26 comments:

  1. Very provocative and thought provoking. I too have been impacted by a loved one or two with mental health concerns. You're right, I totally agree WE MUST ACT! ~LaTonia Gray

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    1. Thanks for your comment! I would love to hear more about your experiences for my book!

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  2. I have a couple family members with mental heath issues. Both adults and children. And I can tell you, its not much easier getting help for a child. A very frusterating thing thats for sure. Great post.

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    1. Thanks for your comment! I know what you mean! Then, those children become teens, and then those teens become adults. Then...you're here.

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  3. I have a daughter and a nephew who suffer from bipolar. It's not easy to be around them most days because of their highs and lows and constant outbursts but we deal with it because we love them. My hubby's cousin Michelle had bipolar also and she committed suicide last September. What a huge blow that was to our family. :(

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    1. Thanks for your comment! Yeah, those outbursts sting. Because usually, they're true! The presentation is all wrong: yelling, cursing and screaming, but that's what they do: in-your-face reality!

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  4. I have been involved in the mental health system for many years both as a patient and worker. It is a very hard system to really find help in if you are underemployed or have low income. These are great points to consider so thank you.

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    1. Thanks for your comment! And you're so welcome! I'd love to hear about your experiences as a patient. It would be great research for my book!

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  5. Those are some very interesting points that you've made. And a very important post, especially in light of Robin Williams' death.

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  6. I'm glad that this sad event has opened the dialogue on the very important topic of mental health in the US

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    1. Thanks for your comment! Me too! But aren't we tired of dialog? We need action! Certifiable results!

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  7. Excellent post! You really cannot understand what someone suffering from depression or mental illness is feeling or experiencing unless you have gone through it yourself. People are so quick to say 'how could they just take their own life?' when I truly believe, for some people, something much deeper is controlling their feelings and actions to the point that it's an out-of-body/mind experience or action.

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    1. Thanks for your comment! It's definitely that! They are mentally imbalanced and can't even keep track of what's going on in their heads sometimes! You're absolutely right!

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  8. Very good post.. we need to take some action when we feel we need it not wait until its too late...

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  9. Great post! I agree we need to do something about changing our mental health system around.

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  10. I am bipolar. I have been on my meds for a long time and I make sure to take them daily. The mental health system does need a major overhaul.

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    1. Thanks for your comment! Especially for yours. You've done what most people with a mental imbalance refuse to do: ADMIT IT! Commendable! I would love to find out more about how you got meds that don't keep you asleep all day!

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  11. Agreed that we need to do more for the mentally ill. It's sad that it's always a tragedy that makes these problems so clear.

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    1. Thanks for your comment! What's even sadder, is that for mentally ill people who are risk takers or dangers to themselves or others, that's EXACTLY what medical and legal professionals, police included, will say: "Well, there's not much we can do until something happens...." REALLY?!

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  12. I like your spirit! So much more needs to be done about mental health in this country. I was just having this conversation with a Psychologist friend of mine. I have no problem writing a letter :)

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    1. Thanks for your comment! Please share it with me here if you do! Hopefully your spark with start an inferno!

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  13. I love your attitude! This is something that shouldn't have stigma attached to it and people shouldn't feel ashamed to ask for help!

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    1. Thanks for your comment! Unfortunately Maggie, I don't think it's embarrassment, more than it is frustration with the mental health care system!

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  14. You are so right. I would love to read your book when it comes out, and thank you for shedding a light on how important proper care for mental health is.

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  15. I have been thinking for a long time that my sister is. great information thank you.

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